Ladies first
Word = Woman
The synonyms for the word are lady, female ,damsel, maiden and so on. The saga starts, the baby name of the girl is baby girl. She is supposed to play with the pink stuffed toys and flaunt pink or red attire. If the girl refuses or shows disinterest in these stuffs then it is thought to be an out of the box thing. When she is growing up she is taught the girly and sophisticated manners and morals. At a grown up stage she is backed up with the moral and social etiquettes and she completely turns into a lady now! (clap)
Again the verification is still demanded with dozen or more rules set by a society to be perfectly termed as a lady . Those rules and later with the several evaluations, she is given the social approval to be regarded as somebody's wife, daughter-in-law,aunt,mother and lastly accepted as a great woman. Amazing isn't it? She is tested many times like some experimental substances of a laboratory!
It is just starting and get get bored. Sorry I am not brought up with the teachings to repent on being a girl. It is just that sometimes it is too mainstream to be perfectly Missy Miss. It has nothing to do with gender issues. I am neither trying to tell that Ladies are superior nor I want to defame and term us as inferior in comparison to other genders!
On the other hand, it is the same lame topic being discussed everywhere. The parliament is boiling up to the hot and new 33 % topic. And does it even counts practically is still another question to ponder on !In addition to this , mahila quotas for competitive exams, the mahila seat on the public transport , special concession on tax and so on are always there to confuse every women.
Some of my experiences or I would say everyday incidents. I use public transportation and seriously ain't entertained with the idea of mahila seat ! Most of the times, I see elderly hajur buas sitting on those troublesome seats. And then the conductor shouts " Didi traffic le samatcha , seat ma basnu na, Bua uthdinus ta ! I seriously don't think it is the proper way of claiming the reserved right. At first , one is institutionally nurtured to respect the seniors and on the later state everybody force you to ignore all the values.
Now talking about the "mahila quotas" . No just stop its again the clause that's making us more weak and meek in the competitive exams. I know it sounds too idealistic but it is not fair! In nutshell, let's try to separate the chaff from the wheat and we are capable for it. We don't need the third party to assure we are strong, right ,confident or even safe! Someone has perfectly versed , "There are two reasons behind all the things. One is the good reason and another is the real reason." So let's get stick to the real reason/ answer/ choice. Let's be fair and do things for real reasons.
The synonyms for the word are lady, female ,damsel, maiden and so on. The saga starts, the baby name of the girl is baby girl. She is supposed to play with the pink stuffed toys and flaunt pink or red attire. If the girl refuses or shows disinterest in these stuffs then it is thought to be an out of the box thing. When she is growing up she is taught the girly and sophisticated manners and morals. At a grown up stage she is backed up with the moral and social etiquettes and she completely turns into a lady now! (clap)
Again the verification is still demanded with dozen or more rules set by a society to be perfectly termed as a lady . Those rules and later with the several evaluations, she is given the social approval to be regarded as somebody's wife, daughter-in-law,aunt,mother and lastly accepted as a great woman. Amazing isn't it? She is tested many times like some experimental substances of a laboratory!
It is just starting and get get bored. Sorry I am not brought up with the teachings to repent on being a girl. It is just that sometimes it is too mainstream to be perfectly Missy Miss. It has nothing to do with gender issues. I am neither trying to tell that Ladies are superior nor I want to defame and term us as inferior in comparison to other genders!
On the other hand, it is the same lame topic being discussed everywhere. The parliament is boiling up to the hot and new 33 % topic. And does it even counts practically is still another question to ponder on !In addition to this , mahila quotas for competitive exams, the mahila seat on the public transport , special concession on tax and so on are always there to confuse every women.
Some of my experiences or I would say everyday incidents. I use public transportation and seriously ain't entertained with the idea of mahila seat ! Most of the times, I see elderly hajur buas sitting on those troublesome seats. And then the conductor shouts " Didi traffic le samatcha , seat ma basnu na, Bua uthdinus ta ! I seriously don't think it is the proper way of claiming the reserved right. At first , one is institutionally nurtured to respect the seniors and on the later state everybody force you to ignore all the values.
Now talking about the "mahila quotas" . No just stop its again the clause that's making us more weak and meek in the competitive exams. I know it sounds too idealistic but it is not fair! In nutshell, let's try to separate the chaff from the wheat and we are capable for it. We don't need the third party to assure we are strong, right ,confident or even safe! Someone has perfectly versed , "There are two reasons behind all the things. One is the good reason and another is the real reason." So let's get stick to the real reason/ answer/ choice. Let's be fair and do things for real reasons.
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